Although in some situations a divorce could be for the best, it is still usually a traumatic event that may cause an individual to shy away from the dating scene for a while. This healing process is completely normal. The previous relationship may have had its faults but it also probably had many good points that the newly divorced individual will miss. Additionally, for many a divorce signifies a failure and the person may blame themselves for not being able to make the relationship work. It's important to remember that a divorce is a serious life event and that it may require a time to heal before you re-enter the dating scene.